Making a Difference: What We're Learning About Supporting Meaningful Change
- Nelly Shen
- Nov 19, 2025
- 6 min read
Every meaningful change starts with a question: "What if things could be different?"
For communities facing barriers to education, opportunity, and equality across Asia and beyond, that question isn't abstract—it's urgent. At Huse Infinity, we're committed to supporting projects that empower women and children, but we're also learning that good intentions alone don't create sustainable change.
This post shares our thinking about funding for social impact—not from a place of expertise, but from a place of genuine commitment to learning how to do this work well.
Why We're Focused on Women and Children
The decision to focus our funding on projects supporting women and children wasn't arbitrary. Research consistently shows that investing in women and girls creates ripple effects throughout entire communities. When women gain education and economic opportunity, they invest in their families' wellbeing. When children receive quality education and support, they break cycles of poverty that can span generations.
But understanding the "why" is only the beginning. The harder questions are "how" and "with whom"—and those questions require humility, not just resources.
What We're Learning About Impact
As we explore how to support meaningful change, several insights have emerged that challenge some common assumptions about charitable funding:
Good intentions can sometimes cause harm
This is uncomfortable to acknowledge, but it's true. Well-meaning interventions can create dependency, undermine local solutions, or impose external values on communities who have different priorities. We've learned to approach funding opportunities with more questions than answers: What do communities actually want? Who's already working on this? How might our involvement help or hinder existing efforts?
The most important lesson: effective funding requires genuine partnership, not just generous giving.
Local knowledge matters more than external expertise
Communities understand their own challenges and opportunities better than any outside organization ever will. The projects most likely to succeed are those designed and led by people with deep roots in the communities they serve.
Our role isn't to design solutions—it's to identify and support organizations that already have community trust, local knowledge, and proven track records. This shift from "we know what's needed" to "how can we support what's already working" has fundamentally changed how we evaluate potential projects.
Sustainability requires more than initial funding
A common pattern in development work is to fund the launch of a program without adequately considering what happens when that funding ends. Schools get built but lack maintenance budgets. Training programs succeed initially but have no plan for ongoing support. Technology gets distributed without consideration for repairs or upgrades.
We're learning to ask harder questions upfront: What's the plan for sustainability? How will this reduce, not increase, dependence on external funding over time? What capacity is being built locally to continue this work?
Measurement is important, but complicated
Funders love metrics—enrollment rates, graduation percentages, income increases. These numbers matter, but they don't capture everything important.
How do you measure increased confidence? Shifts in community attitudes? The emergence of local leadership? A girl who stays in school might be counted; the cultural change that made her family supportive might not be, even though that change could affect dozens of other girls.
We're working to balance quantitative metrics with qualitative understanding, recognizing that some of the most meaningful impacts are hardest to measure.
Transparency matters—including about what we don't know
Social change is complex. We don't have all the answers. Neither do the organizations we might support. Acknowledging this openly creates space for honest conversation about what's working, what isn't, and what needs to change.
We're learning that partnerships built on transparency and mutual learning are stronger than those based on a funder-grantee hierarchy where everyone pretends to have more certainty than they actually do.
Our Approach: Questions Before Commitments
As we consider potential projects to support, we're developing a framework based on questions rather than assumptions:
About the community:
What has this community identified as their most pressing needs?
What solutions have they already tried?
Who holds power and influence in this community, and are marginalized voices genuinely included in decision-making?
About potential partners:
Does this organization have authentic relationships and trust within the community?
What's their track record? Not just successes—how have they handled challenges?
How do they measure impact, and are they honest about what's working and what isn't?
What's their plan for sustainability beyond external funding?
About our role:
Do we have any genuine expertise or connections that would make our involvement valuable, or are we simply writing a check?
Might our funding create unintended dependencies or distortions?
Are we willing to commit for the long term, or are we looking for quick wins?
How will we know if we're actually helping?
These questions slow us down, and that's intentional. Moving quickly might feel efficient, but supporting meaningful change requires patience and thoughtfulness.
If You're Considering Supporting Social Impact Work
Perhaps your organization is thinking about how to contribute to positive change. Based on our early learning, here are some considerations worth weighing:
Start with honest self-assessment
Why do you want to fund social impact work? What do you hope to achieve? What expertise or connections do you actually have? Being honest about your motivations and limitations helps you find opportunities where you can genuinely contribute rather than inadvertently causing problems.
Seek partners, not recipients
The language we use reveals our mindset. Are you looking for "beneficiaries" to help, or partners to collaborate with? The difference is significant. True partnerships involve mutual respect, shared decision-making, and acknowledgment that communities you're supporting have agency and expertise.
Commit to learning, not just giving
Every funding decision generates insights. What surprised you? What didn't work as expected? What did you misunderstand initially? Treating funding as a learning opportunity—and being willing to share those lessons openly, including failures—contributes to better practice across the field.
Be prepared for complexity
Social change rarely follows straight lines. Projects encounter unexpected obstacles. Communities have priorities that shift. What seemed like a good idea initially might need significant adjustment. Flexibility and patience are as important as funding itself.
Consider your unique contribution
What can your organization offer beyond money? Do you have specific expertise? Networks that could be valuable? Platforms for amplifying voices? The most impactful partnerships often leverage multiple types of resources, not just financial ones.
Design for dignity
Every funding decision sends a message about how you view the communities you're supporting. Approaches that build local capacity, respect existing knowledge, and support self-determination honor dignity. Approaches that create dependency, impose external solutions, or treat communities as problems to be solved do not.
The question to keep asking: "Does this intervention increase the community's ability to address their own challenges, or does it make them more dependent on external support?"
What We're Committed To
At Huse Infinity, we're still at the beginning of this journey. We haven't funded numerous projects yet, and we haven't accumulated years of lessons. What we do have is commitment—to approaching this work thoughtfully, to centering community voices and priorities, to being honest about what we don't know, and to learning continuously.
We're committed to:
Listening before acting. Taking time to understand context, existing efforts, and community-defined priorities before making funding decisions.
Partnering authentically. Building relationships based on mutual respect and shared learning rather than hierarchical funder-grantee dynamics.
Measuring thoughtfully. Tracking both quantitative metrics and qualitative impacts, being honest about what's working and what isn't.
Sharing openly. Contributing our learning to the broader field, including mistakes and challenges, not just successes.
Staying humble. Recognizing that communities themselves are the real agents of change, and our role is supportive, not central.
An Invitation to Learn Together
If your organization is considering how to support projects that empower women and children—or any community facing barriers—we'd welcome the conversation. Not because we have answers, but because we believe this work is better done in community with others who are also committed to learning.
The challenges are significant: gender inequality, educational barriers, economic exclusion, and countless other obstacles that limit human potential. But so is the possibility. When communities have resources and support that genuinely serve their priorities, transformation happens.
We're learning that the most powerful question isn't "How can we help?" but rather "How can we support what communities are already doing to help themselves?"
That shift in perspective—from provider to partner, from solution-bringer to supporter—is where we believe meaningful impact begins.
There's so much work to do, so many communities with unrealized potential, so many young people waiting for opportunities to show what they can achieve. We don't have this figured out, but we're committed to the learning journey. If you're on a similar path, perhaps we can learn together.
Because the question "What if things could be different?" deserves more than good intentions. It deserves thoughtful action, humble partnership, and sustained commitment to learning how to truly support—not just fund—meaningful change.
That's the kind of difference we're working toward. And we're doing it with the recognition that we have as much to learn as we have to give.

